By courtesy of Jill Hamilton
Mar 7, 2018
One solid bit of relationship guidance is “The Campsite Rule.” Popularized by sex advice columnist Dan Savage, The Campsite Rule is fairly straightforward: when you’re dating someone with less experience than you, leave them in better condition than you found them. You know, like when you’re actually camping. AKA, don’t be an asshole and leave your garbage everywhere. If you’re looking for a way to ~guide~ someone through their first time, peep these positions ASAP.
1. The Strummer
If you really want to show them the time of their life, put your knees on either side and assume the straddle position. Use your hand to rub your vulva and control your thrusts. He gets a sensual overload — the visual of you doing your thing on top, the new sensation of being inside you, the general OMG-I-am-having-sex. Bonus: he gets highly useful lessons on exactly how you like to be touched.